Pyar ka ehsaas

Koi ja ke raat ko keh de ke ab der se aaya kare,
Ab hamari aankhon ko neend ki zaroorat nahi...

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Unke intezaar ka dard kuchh aisa hai,
Khud ko masroof kiye baithe rehte hain...

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Ab hamein khwabon se nafrat ho chali hai,
Unki tasveer ka jaadu jo sir chadh gaya hai...

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Kisi ki baaton ka bukhar ab sone nahi deta,
Aur jo neend aa jaye unhi ka khwab subah hone nahi deta...

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Ye kaisa intezaar ke nashe mein dooba ja raha hoon,
Mobile fully charged hai par fir bhi charge kiye ja raha hoon...

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Din raat ka haal kuchh aisa machal gaya hai,
Mehnat ka intezaar ab intezaar ki mehnat mein badal gaya hai...

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Ek ajnabi yoon itni jaldi kab se manmeet ho gayi,
Uski awaz kab se mere kaano ka sangeet ho gayi,
Bachaye rakha saari zindagi zamane se,
Khud ko haarna pata nahi kab se jeet ho gayi...

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Yoon betabiyon ke gheron mein dooba rehta hai har shaam,
Wah re dil, tu bhi ab hamara na raha...

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Unke zulmo ke to jaise afsaane ban gaye,
Diwane aashiq aur aashiq diwane ban gaye,
Kuchh nikamme bane,
Kuchh la-ilaaj ban gaye,
Aur kuchh ka to anjaam ye hua,
Ki morning walker se night talker ban gaye...

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Kaash unhe baaton-2 mein jaan lena na aata hota,
Yoon kayi baar marna bada mushkil hai yaar...

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Kya khoob dastoor hota hai iska bhi,
Mohabbat karte to hain dil ko qarar dene ke liye aur ye hai ki sudh-budh bhi chheen leti hai...

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Us neend ka kya karoonga jismein unke khwab na ho,
Usse to achhi ye bechaini hai...

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Jab nashe ka nasha aadat ban jaye,
To raat din kaha yaad aaye...

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Mohabbat ka ehsaas shayad khud mohabbat se hai bada hota,
Ismein doobne wala jaagta hai na sota,
Ye zaroori nahi ke unhe bhi huyi ho mohabbat humse,
Varna unhe hamari betabi ka ilm to hua hota...

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Wo qatl kiye jaye to koi baat nahi,
Hum shikayat bhi karein to shikwa hota hai...

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Kisi ki yaad jo saara din sir chadhi rehti hai,
Ay duniya na-kaami ka ilzaam lagana band kar de hum pe...

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Lagta hai jaise umrein beet gayi,
Abhi kuchh din hi huye unse bichhde...

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Apna kehne ka haq aur badh gaya jaise,
Ab to khuda se bhi maang liya tumhe...

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Kisi ke hosh udaane wale jab yoon khud ki behoshi ka zikr karein,
Ye to sare-aam katl karne jaisa hua...

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Koi yoon dil mein kaise utar jaata hai,
Raat din aur din raat mein badal jaata hai,
Bas kuchh baatein hi to ki hain ab tak unse,
Aisa khumaar to shayad mohabbat mein hi aata hai...

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Zamane ka har dastoor sir aankhon pe,
Par kambakht ye judayi beech mein la ke humse dushmani le baitha...

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Diwano ke baare mein sun ke hasa karte the,
Ab khud kisi ki khamoshi ka intezaar bhi hamein diwana karta hai...

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Yoon dil mein bas ke saanso ko rokne ki kya zaroorat thi,
Ek tasveer mil jaati to khud-b-khud mar jaate hum...

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Saare zamane ke manzar dekh kar jo zindagi ka chain paaya tha,
Wo us ek muskurahat ne pal bhar mein chheen liya...

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Ye to bas aapki sangat ka hi asar hai jo hum shayar ban gaye,
Varna to bas upar wale se shikayatein hi kiya karte the...

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Isse zyada aur kya hoga,
Dil-o-dimaag to pehle hi chheen chuke hain wo hamara...

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Kisi ne chain maanga,
Kisi ne sukoon,
Hamari bekhudi ka aalam to dekho,
Maangi diwanagi aur de diya khoon...

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Kisi ki neendein chura ke yoon khud gehri neend mein sona,
Ye na-insaafi nahi to aur kya hai...

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Pyar se qatl karne walo ke gar naam hote,
To unki giraftaari kab ki ho chuki hoti...

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Kisi ki neendon se khelna jiski aadat ho,
Wo khwabon pe bhi kabza kar le to diwane kahan jayein...

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Kya rang hai ay dost is zamane ka,
Koi sukoon dilwane ka vaada karta hai aur khud hi hosh chheen leta hai...

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Wah re ishq teri bhi kya kismat hai,
Wo itne masroof hain ki un ko tere mar mitne ka ehsaas bhi nahi...

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Itna yaad aate rahogay jo saara-2 din,
Raat to hamari jaan hi le jayegi...

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Ye kaisa ajeeb sa manzar hai zindagi ka,
Khuli aankhon mein teri awaz aur khwabon mein teri tasveer chhayi hai,
Khud ko lagta hai mujhe ke meri tabiyat theek nahi shayad,
Par dost kehte hain ke ye jaadu sa asar karne wali unki parjayi hai...

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Zamana jisay jannat ka nazara kehta firta hai,
Humse poochho to har taraf uski ada bikhri padi hai...

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Uski baatein hamein diwana banaye ja rahi hain,
Kya ye bhi mohabbat ke zulmo ki kadi hai...

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Wo raaton ka jaagna
Wo duniya se bhaagna,
Sirf ik bechaini
Aur mera sainkdo khat likh ke faadna,
Unki ik hasi ki chulbulahat ka
Mere dil ko hazaro teer maarna,
Aur na ji payenge yoon ay dost
Shayad isi ko kehte hain dil Ka haarna...

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Pyar ki khumari ka asar shayad isi ko kehte hain,
Unke khwab na toot jayein isliye hamein bistar se bhi pyar kar liya...

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Kaisi ye zindagi hone lagi,
Kaisi ye mohabbat hone lagi,
Unse har mulaqaat kuchh aur bechain kar deti hai,
Aur milna chhodne ki soch se hi hamaari jaan jaati dikhne lagi...

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Mohabbat, diwangi ya pagalpan,
Kya naam doon is dil ke ehsaas ko...

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Aakhri saans kab li thi mujhe ab yaad nahi,
Unse milne ka wo ehsaas jaane kab se zindagi ban gaya...

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Log samajhte hain ki hum masroof hain unke pehlu mein,
Aur haqikat ye hai ki unhe fikr bhi nahi hamein apni awaz sunane ki...

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Bhula diya sab kuchh usne
Kya din kya raatein,
Mile vile hain nahi abhi tak utna
Haal hua ye bas sunke uski baatein...

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Tera muskurata chehra hi mujhe itna diwana karta hai,
Ye soch ke pareshaan hoon ki jab tum bologi mujhse to dawa kaun karega meri...

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Kaash khuda ne mujhe bhi neend bakhshi hoti,
Yoon bechaini mein unke jaagne ka intezaar to bahut na-insaafi hai...

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Ye meri bechaini ka raaz tum kya jaano,
Diwano ko samajhne ke liye bhi diwangi chahiye...

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Kya ahmiyat hai in saanson ki ab,
Wo lamhe hi to asal zindagi ke the...

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Tu jo mil ke bichhadna chhod de ay humdum,
Zindagi se hamein pyar ho jaye...

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Khud ko badal sakta hai gar to badal,
Yoon rishton mein doosron ko badalna to baadshahat karne jaisa hai shayad...

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Teri ye hasi ki awaz hi hamein itna diwana karti hai,
Jab gale lagaoge to jaan jaate dekhne ka wo pehla manzar hoga shayad...

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Neendein, chain, dil to pehle hi kho chuke the,
Phir ye ab tere chehekne ki awaz kya liye jaati hai...

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Mehfilon mein tujhe dhoondhna
Dil mein tujhe khojna,
Ummeed ke har mod pe tu hogi
Ye teri awaz tere khayalon ka nasha nahi to aur kya hai...

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Yoon tere zulmo ka din-b-din badhna pyar nahi,
Kisi ashiq ke jazbaaton se khelna hi ho sakta hai...

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Khud ko saza dena bhi mera shaunk ban gaya,
Ye mohabbat aur kya kya dikhayegi ab mujhe...

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Teri gehri saanson ki awaz ka nasha kal raat se kuchh yoon chadha hai,
Jaise apni raat hum kisi aur ki saanson mein kaat ke aaye hon...

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Itna pyar na de mujhko ay mere humdum,
Sirf teri baatein hi mujhe is jahan se jaane na dengi...

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Dekhoon to meri aankhon mein tu,
Boloon to meri baaton mein tu,
Khushi mein tu, gam mein tu
Mere zindagi ke har pal mein tu,
Tunay mujhe de di meri zindagi
Sab tujhpe hi kho chuka hoon ab tujhe aur kya doon...

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Uth hi chale the uske zulmo se tang aa ke hum is duniya se,
Zalim ne gale laga ke ek aur zindagi thama di...

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Chehre pe likha hi padh lo to bahut hai,
Andar uthte toofan na samajh paogay...

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Kuchh ghadiyaan unki bhi guzrein bechaini aur beqarari mein,
Ay kaash unhe bhi humse mohabbat ho jaye...

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Tera chehra mere kaandhe pe ho,
Isse zyada shayrana zindagi kya hogi...

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Teri zulfein, teri aankhein,
Teri baatein, teri yaadein,
Dil ka dhadakna
jaise teri aahatein,
Gum hoon khud is jahan se main,
Ye kissa batayein to kisko batayein...

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Jab naam likh di zindagi tere,
To kuchh pal maang ke sharminda mat kar ay dost...

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Ay diwaangi ke saudagar,
Ye chain chheen ke tu kisko deta hai kyonki tu khud bhi to diwana aur bechain firta hai...

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Tere aane se zindagi se pyar ho gaya ay humdum,
Varna ab tak to bas saans hi liya karte the...

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Door ho ke bhi paas tum ho,
Zindagi ki maayusiyon ki aas tum ho,
Main to kho hi chuka tha khud ko zamane ki bheed mein,
Par tumse milke lagta hai jaise mere khud ke hone ka ehsaas tum ho...

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Mujhe pyar se sarabor karne wale,
Mujhe adaaon se madhosh karne wale,
Teri chaahton mein doobta ja raha hoon pal pal,
Koshishon mein beshak lage hon mujhe rokne wale...

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Zakhm de ke yoon mohabbat ko,
Kya zamana khud ko khuda manvana chahta hai...

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Aaj yoon khud pe shaq hone laga hai,
Agar ek din ki judayi mein ye haal hai to amaavas poori kaise kategi...

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Mujhe log tere naam se bulaane lagenge ab shayad,
Mere badan se teri khushbu jo aane lagi hai...

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Ek pal mein zindagi ka guzar jaana ho jaise,
Wo ehsaas jo khud se anjaana ho jaise,
Wo mere haath mein tera haath,
Ek pyar ka zamaana ho jaise...

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Koi vajood na tha mera is jahan mein,
Tunay mujhe yoon apna ke khuda bana diya...

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Mohabbat aur husn ko khuda ne itna alag kyon banaya,
Husn ko bekhabari bakhshi aur mohabbat ko hamesha tadpaya...

Fiza...

Uski har aahat mein ik fiza bandhi thi jaise,
Uski chulbulahat mein zindagi thi jaise,
Baandh diya usne un palon ko kuchh aise,
Usko taakte rehna bandagi thi jaise...

Rishton ki majbooriyaan...

Rishto ki majboriyaan bhi kya khoob hoti hain,
Khokhle ghatnaon ke mohtaj hote hain aur sache bhavnaon ke...

My first speech at India Speakers Forum...

Link to page on India Speakers Forum: http://indiaspeakersforum.com/blog/?p=18

SPEECH:
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“Hello Everybody, my name is Sukhpal Bhatti and I am the Co-Founder of HR Consulting venture Athena Globus Pvt Ltd & Adventure Junkies.

My existence philosophy is pretty simple – Life is happening NOW. I am a firm believer that anything that life can be is NOW, in this moment. And most of the times I find myself witnessing & exploring it.

My childhood was very exciting if I compare it with today’s kids since we played on the streets games like – chhupan chhupayi, maaran peeti, marbles…  there was no internet or mobile (sounds like dinosaur age now) and even TV was limited to Chitrahar and Sunday movie. I studied in a Govt school thus adding more punch to my already adventurous life. In my college days, the other students would wonder why I didn’t look excited at the idea of bunking classes – it was simply because we did that all the time in our school days, been there done that you know!

I started my career as a multimedia artist but then the worms of exploration started taking over and I ended up having a diversified experience in IT, Project Management & People Development. After 15 yrs of routine, I decided to explore the not much travelled path of entrepreneurship and here I am.

All this while, what kept me going are my different streams of passion – be it music, travel, cricket, Reiki. It always kept on bringing a period of reflection of my life & absorption of new and innovative ideas which in turn would reinvigorate my personality altogether every time and stopped me from hitting a creative plateau.

Travel gave a whole new purpose to my salaried life. Exploring new thing, especially places, made me enriched with a whole new Knowledge, Self-realization and Expanded my personality & level of maturity. Experience of meeting so many personalities always reignited life in me.

Music brought about the stillness in life and I would go into meditation kind of stage while doing riyaz (practicing).

But my introduction to spirituality (through Reiki) had the strongest impact on my life. Suddenly I could feel life all around me. Criticism didn’t matter anymore. Everybody started looking good… and I stopped trying to look good. I became a doer from a mere thinker. And I found that life is the most still when its moving. That it is this moment which matters (or which is matter else past or future are just thoughts). That life’s real satisfaction is in giving and not expecting. That life is in facing it and not avoiding it. Its not about winning or losing, its in experiencing it. And when you experience, there is never a loss.

And since then, I have been in the NOW.

Mr. Sukhpal Bhatti
Member- India Speakers Forum

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Public Speaking & Effective Communication
Inter-personal Skills
Leadership Development
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The fortnightly forum meets every alternate saturday for a duration of 2-3 hours in Central Delhi. For more information mail: info@indiaspeakersforum.com

Happy Valentine's Day

Love is that feeling which can't be defined... it gives you so many reasons to day-dream... so many reasons to remember somebody for actually no reasons... it makes you feel important... it makes you feel that you are good... makes you possessive about someone but gives the strength to give up everything else... it changes your preferences drastically as you acquire those of that somebody... it makes you wait for somebody's call and check your WhatsApp regularly to see if there is any message... :-) it unconsciously forces you to be self-conscious all the time... its about accepting others as they are and not just knowing/judging them...

Its about expressing and not getting… abt feeling and not a status... its about approaching and not waiting... its about... its never ending... :-)

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Love...

For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. Same way, for every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it. Actually, Love should be selfless. I mean, if you expect something in return then it surely is not true love. It is something else which we, in a state of selfishness, perceive as Love and because it is not true love it does not fulfil our desires and we curse it thinking that Love is bad. Love does not claim possession, but gives freedom. Love actually means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person (not expecting anything back by that love in other person). Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love. So my dear Lovely Friends, just spread Love on this day which is full of Love by forgiving everyone and you will find that your true Love will respond back with more Love. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Love,
Sukhpal Bhatti

Fitrat

Yoon pareshan si zindagi nafrat mein guzaar ke,
Apna-2 kafila alag le ke ye har aadmi kahan chale,

Zindagi ki dhoop aansuon ki chaandni se behtar lagi,
Par dua bhi maangi to kya, is baar ki kisht mein sirf raat dhale,

Khushi dene ki fitrat na thi, jahan ko apna gham baant chale,
Humsafar ki talash mein saara safar akele kaat chale...

Saath...

Akela jab nikla tha raahon mein
Zindagi thi meri aahon mein,
Mila jab saath tumhara
Manzilein hain meri baahon mein,

Main tha bas ik toota kinara
Bana nadi jab mila saath tumhara,
Milne se ban gayi zindagi
Saath hi tha tumhara aadhaara,
Ab aur kuchh nahi hai meri chahon mein
Manzilein hain meri baahon mein

Ab ek line chhichhoron ke liye bhi :-)

Tum jo na milte
To main mar jaata kunwara :-)))

Life-Tension-Religion -> Its all mind's creation

Most of us are bitten by the bug of standardization/social conditioning. We believe in certain things because everybody else does or it looks good or makes us look good. We don't ever try to live life but spend our lives in planning/collecting resources for it whereas it is happening now... we don't ever try to understand/feel love but spend our lives in showing others that we love because when others appreciate that, it gives a high to our ego and we don't care about the real love which makes us human but may not fetch appreciation (as somebody rightly said - now a days, it is not as important to love as it is to say!)... we go to temples only for getting our wishes fulfilled... and not surprisingly, we change temples when our wishes don't get fulfilled :-) we don't respect but touch elder's feet to show we respect (and btw, those who respect but don't touch elder's feet are considered to be ill-behaved)... we have relationships which break on the first instance of disagreement or on not getting expected favours from others... we seek feedback only to pump our ego, those who suggest us improvements are taken as enemies :-) We go to support Anna Hazare at Jantar-Mantar or through FB/websites/SMSs or sounding good talks in public gatherings (since all of this gets us food for our ego) but would not mind jumping redlights or breaking rules on road or misusing things/facilities in our daily office life (this is something we don't even realize/agree with, since we always blame all our personally created tensions on office! easy target u know :-) )... We do 'kanya poojan' in Navratras but would scold/beat the same girl child if she puts a scratch on our car... we donate, but mostly when we are approaching an exam or going through tough times... AND we call it as a part of religion!!!!!

Now what is religion actually? I think its something we human beings agreed to have to get rid of our MIND created to pacify identity crises (which in itself is a creation of the mind only and not a reality) which in turn satisfies our ego. It is nothing more than some collective point of views and practices. Its not God, its a way we think we can realize God probably because God wrote all those practices for us!!! Whenever God or any of His incarnations preached something, a group from us created a religion out of it. None of the Gods asked to create a new religion... none of the religious books/granth talks about religion... they all talk about life only! I think start of a new religion itself is based on the feeling/thinking that there is something wrong in the current religion whereas sprituality never talks/preaches any counter actions.

We all have given-up on our MIND which we trained ourselves to keep on working and working and working all the time and now we are working and working and working on its command... advent of multi-tasking helped human race but we couldn't put a stop on it or control it and ended up getting habitual of thinking 24x7 even when there is nothing to think... I think tension is nothing else but uncontrolled thinking about something (either PAST OR FUTURE always) which we can't control/ or something which is unreal/ or something we don't do anything about but just think... because if we do something about it, we will not end up only thinking and thinking is not a sign of present... No body can think in the present, isn't it :-) thinking is either for a moment gone-by or the moment to come... present is only about action... and that is life all about - the present!!!!! Being in the now is only form of life... rest all is a mind made maya... :-)

As a very close friend of mine often says - "We live as if this a rehearsal of life and we will live it when it will come whereas life is this, here and now!!!"

So stop planning/collecting resources for life and live now...

Tum...

Dil ki awaz
Shayar ki shayari ho tum,
Tumhare hone mein
Duniya, gam, khushi sab ho jayein gum,

Lehrati zulf hai ke chehre se hat-ti nahi
Dhadkan hai ke tumhe dekh ke ghat-ti nahi,
Wo shaam ke doobte sooraj ke aasman si gehrayi liye
Nazar se tumhari nazar hamari hat-ti nahi,

Naino ki zuban ki koi rah nahi hoti
Dil ki dhadkan ki awaz nahi hoti,
Gar hoti in sabki bhi koi kitab
Tum ab tak samajh gayi hoti... :-)